Posts Tagged ‘emo and scene’

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If I dye my hair black, brush my bangs over my eyes and post a Myspace picture in black and white of me screaming in a mirror, does that make me scene?

I am impressed by the abundance of pre-adolescent girls (and boys too) who are becoming so involved with the scene lifestyle. When I went to school there was such a wider variety than that. Nowadays it seems that you are either worshiping the ground Miley Cyrus walks on, or you’re standing quiet in a corner planning a hundred ways to kill her. My daughter is barely a year old and my only hope is that by the time she gets to that point in her life the scene queen drama has long been forgotten.

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When I was seventeen or so I remember thinking how cool it was to walk around school with a gazillion hickies on my body. I’ll admit, I was loud about everything in my life, including my sex life. (Unfortunately a vast majority of my boyfriends did not appreciate my openness. That’s why they are now my EX’s- you pansy bastards). And perhaps it was my transition into mommy-hood that rendered me to find disgust in them, I’m not really sure. Normally when I see two teenagers walking around covered ear to ear I just let it go, because frankly I haven’t reached the point where I am going to be that naive about it and because, well that was me once, yah know. However, the display that I witnessed yesterday will forever hold a mortifying connotation of hickies in my memory bank…

Two teenagers, standing in line at McDonalds are getting it. Like really getting it ultimate P.D.A style. Okay, I am just going to ignore it or whatnot, because remember- I was at that point in my life once too.

However, as the boyfriend decides to rub her bum he lifts her skirt, only to expose an infestation of ASS HICKIES! What!? In all my hickie giving/receiving days I have NEVER gotten a damn hickie on my ass- and maybe it wouldn’t have been so bad had she  been wearing some panties.

How is this acceptable? Why would you even allow your boyfriend to lift your skirt up while you are standing in a public place anyways, especially when you are A.) Clearly not wearing panties B.) Covered in hickies C.) BOTH!

I am far from being a prude, but I also feel there is a certain level of self respect to have, and bygod if you don’t have respect for yourself: have it for the twenty plus people and the small children in the room where you just exposed your bare bruised ass cheeks.